We’ll change our viewpoint and perception .

We’ll change our viewpoint and perception . We’ll come to recognise our dissociated and split-off self We will acknowledge in our reality the deep and powerful churning inner rage and fury and misery and sadness over what has been done to us We will acknowledge the impossible parent dream for the perfect child that we’ll have tried to become.We will loosen the attempts to come across as l the Best CHILD in the whole wide world. This child's that always needs to prove to another that we’ve changed. And on the surface WE WILL change. 

We will appear behaviourally different. we won’t get plastered and get violent for no reason and puke all over the new carpets and drive like an intoxicated maniac and frighten the hell out of everyone and force others to live with a pink elephant in their living room. No, the only pink elephant left in our life will be the pink elephant of our entire unconscious, which we won’t notice anymore because it will just get in our way of what looks like a reformed life. We’ll smile and convince others that we have reformed, even though underneath it we’ll still be as deformed a personality as ever. 

we reconstruct our truth in our reality we no longer have to come across as another person. Th masks are dropped. We become the genuine article living in our own time and space no longer controlled by others.