Now that we have gained an understanding we actively befriend our child within looking towards all the things we have done

Now that we have gained an understanding we actively befriend our child within looking towards all the things we have done– We feel strong enough to explore what was done to us and what motivated and still often motivates our behaviour . Was it that that which will please in the eyes of this external God (Mommy), and will we be ready to be loved once again. This motivation give us a very warm feeling inside, a dissociative feeling which we will mistake for being a sign-marker on our path to our recovery. We must understand that in the past we always forced to remember/forget that no one but us was responsible for our “defective character,” When the real and denial was that of Mommy/parent figure themselves! Mommy/significant other loves me, and she’s/hes the one who will save me was our programmed lie. She has everything do to with why I’m so messed up and dysfunctional! We begin to own our own truth and realise the BIG lie of our disassociation, this snippet of truth will lead us to true freedom like we have never known before.We will begin to have our own knowledge and know a deep peace.