Our conscious mind — believe it or not — is not in charge of our day-to-day behaviour.That claim may seem counter intuitive and contrary to our experience, but it has been demonstrated in controlled experiments time and again. By the time our conscious mind is aware of any particular decision or action, it has already been made or enacted by some other part of our brain.
In recovery we often become sheriffs dealing with outlaws in the dusty Wild West: “There’s only room for one of us in this town…” To make the analogy fit, the outlaw (i.e. the child within) must lack…
We need stagers who don’t lie to us – or to themselves. We need stagers who can be straight with us. We need stagers who can be straight with each other, and have no hidden agendas. We need stagers w…
If we are to open full discourse with our healed self. We need to devote our lives to the betterment of ourselves in mind, body, and spirit. We need to enter the deepest and darkest depths of ourselv…
We use projection,as our most basic defence mechanism underlying our dissociation and acting out, it becomes so easy and comfortable when one has offspring. They’re like magnets for parental project…
Reject our upbringing, reject the lies that we are raised on, and find the honest truth within our child within. This threatens others way of life, and creates a new deep recovery mould. The Ten Stag…
Our intuition does not merely tell us verbally about our Truth.intuition communicates Truth directly and energetically through wisdom and gracious presence into the inner ear or the very bloodstream …
Not only do we seek resolution of our perceived problems, but we also feel that we deserve resolution. However, not only do we not deserve resolution, we suffer from resolution. We don't deserve reso…
CHILD WITHIN PROGRESS = INTUITIVE HAPPINESS.Simple progress.Not huge lofty goals.But progress.That means - daily progress. It doesn't have to be huge. It doesn't have to be grand. Just simple daily s…
Our life is a mechanical life. It's not human, it's programmed, conditioned. We might as well be a stone, a block of wood. We can go to the movies, drive around in a car, we can go for a cruise. Do w…
We ask where compassion comes in, where guilt comes in all this. We'll know when we're awake to our Child Within. If we're feeling guilty right now, how on earth can we explain it to you? How would w…
Imagine that you are in a situation or with a person that you find unpleasant and that you would ordinarily avoid. Now observe how your computer instinctively becomes active insisting that you avoid …
